Sexy Father’s Day Gift Ideas

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June 16, 2011

SIX, SEXY (and last minute)
FATHER’S DAY GIFT IDEAS

This Sunday is Father’s day.   Wives everywhere are frantically out looking for special last minute Father’s Day gift ideas for the most special guy in their lives.  Your husband will be expecting a shirt, a tie or perhaps even some barbecue tools.  Who says that Father’s Day has to be so boring?  Why not surprise your sweetie with something a little more unique and definitely much more sexy?   A truly heart felt gift will make your guy feel much more special and he’s definitely going to get excited about the thought behind these ideas.  Consider some of these (perhaps unexpected) Father’s Day presents.  Most of these hot gifts you will want to give to your man in private quarters when the kids are definitely not around. 

Here’s a list of our favorite sexy Father’s Day ideas that we’re sure your guy is going to love!

Father’s Day Coupon book:  These aren’t just any old coupons.  You can customize these and make them special according to what your guy likes best.  Be creative (and sexy) with your choices of what you might tempt him.  Encourage him to cash them in as soon as possible.  Some ideas for yours might include:  A sexy night of strip poker, a night of any fantasy desired, a night on the town, a night at your favorite sporting event, a 30 minute foot rub…etc.  Be prepared to make good on each and every one of them!

Framed sexy picture:  He won’t be expecting a gift like this but he’s going to love this very sexy token of your undying affection.   Take a very sexy picture of yourself and put it in a nice frame.  Take the time to make your hair and makeup perfect and wear something sexy and alluring—perhaps even lingerie if you are feeling very brave.  This gift will make sure you are on his mind even when you aren’t around. 

Father’s Day Breakfast:  You can enlist the help of your kids on this one.  Get out of bed early, but make sure your guy understands that it’s Father’s Day and his day to sleep in late.  Make all your mans breakfast favorites to be served to him in bed.   Make something that smells wonderful (like coffee and muffins) so he will awake to the whole house smelling wonderful. 

Fathers Day Backrub:  What guy doesn’t love a luxurious backrub?  If your kids are planning on serving dad breakfast in bed, save your loving backrub for Father’s Day night so the two of you can enjoy your special time together.  Make sure you have some delicious smelling body oil to massage into your special guys skin.  Appropriate attire is going to enhance the massage experience.  Make sure you have something sexy to wear for his indulgent rub down.  Check online for sexy massage kits designed just for lovers.  He won’t be expecting a gift like this, but he’s going to love it!

Father’s Day for Two:  After the kids are in bed and all wound down from all the Father’s day activities, make sure your guy knows how special he is to you.  Tell him you have a quiet evening planned just for the 2 of you.  Tell your guy to relax in the bedroom.  Have some champagne and chocolate covered strawberries there waiting for him.  Surprise him by wearing some very sexy and special lingerie that he has never seen before.   Pour the champagne, feed him strawberries and just enjoy what happens from there.

Kama Sutra Kit:  Just reading the words on the box when he opens this kit is going to get him excited.  This is a very enticing way to say “I Love You” to your guy.  Find special kits online with sexy scented oils, powders and edible balms.  Explore a new and very delicious way to discover all things sensuous! 

Fathers Day is a great day for kids and their dads to celebrate their relationship and to make dads feel special.  It’s also a great time to let your man know how much you appreciate all that he means to you on a much more personal level.  We’re sure our gift ideas are going to make your sweetie’s Father’s Day the best one ever! 

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Sexting 101: Sexting Tips for Men and Women

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June 13, 2011

Sexting Tips for Men and Women

Boys will be boys.  And that goes for big boys and apparently Congressmen, too.  The ink hasn’t even dried on the latest dish on Arnie and his lovechild and already, another political person has gone “bad boy” on us.  It seems that a new limelighter has bent the rules (again) and decided that the world needed to see much, much more of him than they were formerly getting.   Anthony Weiner is certainly the most infamous celebrity sexter in recent days (move over Brett Favre) and the whole situation does leave us a bit baffled.  The truth is always so much stranger than fiction and honestly you just couldn’t make some of this stuff up!

It seems that no matter how many of these situations go bad there are still guys out there who are going to send their own Mr. Johnson out cyber-calling.  For these guys (and you girls, too who might be tempted to get naked in a sext message of your own) we’ve compiled a few guidelines that are going to hopefully keep your sexting where it belongs—as a sexy, (and hopefully very private) consensual conversation between two interested, adult people. 

TIPS FOR MEN

Who’s this for?  Guys– as much as you love your package (we know you do) and are so proud of all it can do—please consider how a woman feels about seeing the same thing appear on her small screen.   A woman may not be as turned on by receiving this type of a pictorial message as you are by sending it to her.

Never send an out of nowhere sext:  This scenario has “disaster” written all over it.  Trust me, no woman wants your initial contact with her to be something that could be construed as creepy.  You should always have an established intimate relationship with any woman you’d ever consider sexting and it’s probably a good idea to ask her how she feels about receiving a sexy picture before you hit the send button.

It’s all about trust.  Who can you really trust?  You have to ask yourself…”how well do I really know this woman?”  If you sent her a sexy picture, would she keep your privates-private?  Or would she quickly (while giggling) show your pic to all her friends?  Once the photo is forwarded to one of her friends it can disseminate rapidly.

Consider a new definition of sexy:  Sometimes complete nudity isn’t as sexy as leaving something to the imagination.  Consider leaving your jeans on with perhaps just the top button open.  Leave your big head out of the shot—with no face there is no positive identity and trust me that might just be your ace in the hole.  No matter how much proof or evidence someone has that you are the owner of the sexy package in the pic— in a desperate situation you can always deny, deny, deny.

Consider the pros and cons:  First and foremost ask yourself if the picture were to leak out how damaging would it be to you, your family and your career.  If the answer strikes anywhere on the painOmeter, just don’t go there. It’s not worth it. 

Realize that women are wired differently:  If your agenda is to arouse and tease your girlfriend or spouse then the text part of the message is as important as the picture.  Women respond to feelings and emotions stronger than visual images so in order for your sext to have the desired effect be sure to attach a meaningful as well as sexy message to it, not just a picture.  Try something like “I can’t get my mind off of you—here’s the proof” or something like that.  The sentiment is actually just as (or more) important as the photograph.

TIPS FOR WOMEN

If your guy has sent you a sexy text message and you want to return the favor, here are a few tips for women that will help you retain your privacy and yet let you have a little fun with your favorite guy as well.

Guys like to brag:  The trust issue is critical if you are considering sending a sexy photo to your man, Keep in mind that guys like to show off and there is a very high likelihood that he will be tempted to show the pic to his buddies for bragging rights—even if you’ve ask him not to.  If you can’t trust your man not to display your picture then you really should avoid sending him one altogether.  When in doubt, just don’t.

Stay incognito:  Don’t ever sext a completely nude photo with your face in it.   If you want your face in the photo, wearing some sexy lingerie will keep yourself partially covered while still being incredibly sexy.  Leaving something to the imagination is tantalizing and will send a message to your guy without the same risk involved as a more risqué shot.  A leg in a thigh high stocking and a high heel can make a very alluring photo.  If you use your imagination you will come up with ideas that are both sexy and will still retain most of your privacy.  Put your hair up, face away from the camera and look over your shoulder so your face is in shadow and can’t be seen.  You don’t have to show a ton of skin to get a hot and sexy message through to your guy.  Save the really good stuff for private quarters.

If you ask the professionals (whoever they are) they are going to tell you that sending sext messages is generally a very bad idea.  Just look at today’s headlines-there is no such thing as being 100% safe once something hits cyberspace.  Being as that we are living in a world of human beings, however, it seems unlikely that everyone is going to listen to that advice—besides, where’s the real fun in that?  Since sexting is obviously here to stay, hopefully these tips will help to keep you out of any major trouble and keep your privacy intact as well.

"Do not be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better."
– Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Top 10 Lingerie Choices for Super Sexy Brides

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June 1, 2011

It’s that time of year again. Summer is definitely wedding time! If you are soon to be a bride, undoubtedly you have put many hours of thought into hundreds of details. One important nicety that should not be overlooked is the lingerie that you are going to be wearing on your big day and even more importantly, on your honeymoon. The lingerie you wear underneath your bridal dress may not necessarily be the sexiest underwear you’ve ever worn. Obviously the point of the undergarments you wear underneath your wedding gown is to shape and lift your body to its upmost perfection so you look simply fabulous on your special day. To achieve your best look this may require some gentle support or sculpting which can be brilliantly aided by creative lingerie choices.


Honeymoon lingerie is a different story altogether. Practicality can (and should) be thrown completely out the window and now is the time to pull out all the stops and go for some big time sex appeal. You can choose as many different styles as you like—and you don’t necessarily have to wear the traditional white. It’s fun to mix it up, and start your new married life off with a big bang. Your first night together as husband and wife will always be one you will remember. Make sure you have something special and wonderful to wear.

Here’s our top 10 list of hot lingerie choices for super sexy brides.



Baby Doll

Baby dolls are two coordinated pieces. The top is traditionally fitted like a bra with a plunging, cleavage-enhancing neckline and an empire waist. The skirt flows freely over your torso down to your hips. The second piece is usually a g-string or a thong. The baby doll is a very traditional sexy look and you will definitely want to pack one of these in your honeymoon suitcase.

Chemise

The chemise is a form-fitting one-piece garment that skims over your body straight from the shoulders and down over the hips. Many different styles and fabrications are available. Some chemise styles have plunging necklines and some are cut low in the back for a daring rear view. This is a more modest look if you want to show off your curves. A sheer fabric makes a ravishing look for a new bride.

Teddy

The teddy is a one-piece garment that is like having a chemise and underpants all in one daring piece. Sometimes teddies have a thong back or some have a more modest cut that flatteringly dissects your rear end. Teddies often come with a snap crotch. Teddies, because of their one-piece design with dramatically high cut leg openings, create the illusion of longer and slimmer legs. Pick a teddy in a traditional white or spice things up a bit with a bright splash of color. Some styles come with garters so you can add tantalizing thigh high hosiery to your very sexy look.

Corset

What historically was a supportive and somewhat uncomfortable piece of women’s lingerie, the corset has evolved into one of the most sexually provocative looks that a woman can wear. The corset usually is strapless or has removable straps for versatility. Corsets often have built in boning for sexy shaping and often have attached garters. These titillating garments are usually worn with a g-string panty and thigh high stockings. This traditional lingerie look is going to prove to be one of your groom’s favorites.

Long Gowns

Long gowns are perfect for the bride desiring the quintessential Femme Fatale look or may also appeal to the more traditional bride. Long gowns are one piece that flows from the shoulders to the calves or ankles. Often made of feminine lace or sheer fabric, these are a very sexy choice for the bride that wants a bit more coverage but still desires a very dramatic and sensuous look.

Bra and Skirt Set

If you are a girly girl the perfect honeymoon lingerie option may just be a cute bra and skirt set. The flirty, feminine styling is a sure fire tease for your new husband and the flattering look is definitely going to enhance your figure as well.

Panties

You are going to want several different panty styles to take along with you on your honeymoon getaway. You can pick white lace in a style that enhances your bridal attire for your wedding day and other styles and colors for the rest of your trip. Crotchless styles are also available and will provide a sexy and alluring surprise for your new groom. Cute styles with “Bride” or “Just Married” emblazoned on your rear end make a fun post-wedding accessory as well.

Stockings and Garters

A can’t miss favorite lingerie accessory is the super sexy garter and thigh high stocking combination. This sexy duo can be worn with cami’s, bustiers, corsets and of course can be worn underneath your wedding gown as well. These lingerie pieces are a time honored traditional favorite amongst brides—and with good reason since grooms tend to appreciate this look as well.

Something a little extra fun

If you want to take your honeymoon fun to a whole new level, consider a sexy role -playing look for your honeymoon lingerie attire. You can dress up as a sexy bedroom bride or something more dramatic like a naughty nurse or a French maid. The point is to have fun and sexy role-playing can be the perfect way to do this.

No matter what lingerie you choose to wear on your wedding day, be sure you choose beautiful pieces that you feel absolutely comfortable wearing and make you look your best. This is your special day—make the most of it. Your husband is also going to love your look, especially if it makes you obviously feel very sexy.

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