If love is blind, then why do men simply looooove lingerie? Well first of all, perhaps lingerie isn’t really as much about the love part of love as it is about the lust part of love. Lust is a bit of a loaded word, but essentially it isn’t a bad thing; physical desire and sexuality are an intrinsic part of the human experience and an important part of a healthy relationship. After an unofficial survey of a few of our local guys we came to understand a little bit more about the reasons why men appreciate lingerie and how it can benefit you as well. Here are our top 5 reasons why your man is going to love it when you wear lingerie!
You Feel Pretty, and It Shows! Men love a confident woman and if wearing super pretty as well as sexy things adds to your confidence, this is going to ultimately do wonders for your sex appeal. Lingerie is about as feminine as you can get when it comes to clothing; flaunting your feminine appeal to your guy is enticing and alluring. You don’t have to have a perfect figure, just the confidence to show off what you have in the most appealing way possible! Buying and wearing something special just to entice your man is going to make him feel like a million bucks.
The Tease: Lingerie represents the last piece of clothing between your guy and what he considers the final frontier. Suggestively showing him enough but not everything creates an enticing tease factor that will bring out something in his inner male. Men love to have to work at something and making it their quest to find out what’s underneath all that pretty is going to be fun for him. Lingerie creates increased desire in him while adding to his pleasure factor.
Forbidden Fruit: Since the time we were small, most of us were taught to cover our bodies and to also cover our underwear. Lingerie is essentially “underwear” and being able to visualize something that is otherwise somewhat forbidden creates a bit of an erotic (and somewhat naughty) fantasy for most men. Underwear designed primarily for the act of seduction is almost too good to be true; for men this is a huge turn on.
Visual Appeal: Men are very visual creatures; creating a vision for him of something that is sexy and appealing is very hot and exciting. Lingerie is created in sexually alluring fabrics, colors and styles that are designed to showcase the female form in its most attractive way. Lingerie highlights a woman’s body in a way that most street clothing never can or will; remember that the next time your guy watches you take off your daytime attire and you have something pretty as well as sensual on underneath.
The Not-so-Hidden Agenda: Lingerie has an implied guarantee that although usually unspoken, most men will easily get the message that you are sending. If you are dressing up in something sexy while in private quarters you are giving your man a strong signal and yes, he is usually all too willing to comply. The positive association men place with lingerie and eventual physical intimacy will practically guarantee a happy reaction in him when you wear it.
Women love lingerie because it makes them feel sexy and feminine. Men love lingerie because they are visual creatures that love the simple thrill and anticipation that goes with it. You can’t really beat this combination for what should become a truly win-win scenario with some pretty big benefits!
