Do you want to know what your man is secretly thinking? You might be surprised at some of the more private yearnings that your man harbors deep within his grey matter. Sexual fantasies can be a normal part of a thriving sex life, however and there really is no need to worry that your guy is a closet perv or that he’s exhibiting some kind of deviant behavior. Most of the time, wanting to explore sexual fantasies isn’t weird at all–in fact, with two consenting parties involved, sometimes acting out these sexy fantasies can be a whole lot of fun.
Role Playing: Some of the most interesting and fun sexual adventures can be obtained through role-playing. Think of it this way. If you were looking at the same beautiful piece of artwork every day of your life, after awhile, the impact of the piece may not be quite as dramatic as it once was. The same thing holds true with our partners. It’s not that we love them any less–it’s just that we become used to their presence and get wrapped up in the day to day business of living. Why not try a little role playing to spice things up a bit and give him a different look? You might be surprised at how much fun you have, not to mention how sexually exciting it may be to let him live out one of his secret fantasies. Some of the more popular role playing adventures might include:
- Sexy School Girl
- Sexy Secretary
- Naughty Nurse
- Police Officer
- French Maid
If your man is into role playing and dressing up as a fantasy character (aka "bedroom costumes"), don’t be alarmed. If your guy wants you to dress up as a character from his school days, (like a teacher or a school girl) this does NOT mean that he’s attracted to little girls. More likely than not, he’s just rekindling the feelings of his budding sexuality that he remembers from his school days and using that as a catalyst today for creating bedroom fire in his manly world. There is something that most men like about a grown woman dressed up in that plaid skirt, white blouse and knee socks that is a huge turn on for him. Perhaps the whole schoolgirl thing reminds him of a time of innocence and sexual newness that he’s left in the past. Being a grown up does not mean that you can’t enjoy playfulness inside the bedroom. He knows role playing is a fantasy and obviously recognizes that it’s not reality–but will he enjoy the adventure? Probably so.