Your Man: What You Might Not Know About His Secret Fantasies

What you might not know about your man's secret fantasies.

Do you want to know what your man is secretly thinking? You might be surprised at some of the more private yearnings that your man harbors deep within his grey matter. Sexual fantasies can be a normal part of a thriving sex life, however and there really is no need to worry that your guy is a closet perv or that he’s exhibiting some kind of deviant behavior.  Most of the time, wanting to explore sexual fantasies isn’t weird at all–in fact, with two consenting parties involved, sometimes acting out these sexy fantasies can be a whole lot of fun.

Role Playing:  Some of the most interesting and fun sexual adventures can be obtained through role-playing. Think of it this way.  If you were looking at the same beautiful piece of artwork every day of your life, after awhile, the impact of the piece may not be quite as dramatic as it once was. The same thing holds true with our partners. It’s not that we love them any less–it’s just that we become used to their presence and get wrapped up in the day to day business of living. Why not try a little role playing to spice things up a bit and give him a different look? You might be surprised at how much fun you have, not to mention how sexually exciting it may be to let him live out one of his secret fantasies. Some of the more popular role playing adventures might include:

  • Sexy School Girl
  • Teacher
  • Sexy Secretary
  • Naughty Nurse
  • Police Officer
  • French Maid

If your man is into role playing and dressing up as a fantasy character (aka "bedroom costumes"), don’t be alarmed. If your guy wants you to dress up as a character from his school days, (like a teacher or a school girl) this does NOT mean that he’s attracted to little girls. More likely than not, he’s just rekindling the feelings of his budding sexuality that he remembers from his school days and using that as a catalyst today for creating bedroom fire in his manly world.  There is something that most men like about a grown woman dressed up in that plaid skirt, white blouse and knee socks that is a huge turn on for him.  Perhaps the whole schoolgirl thing reminds him of a time of innocence and sexual newness that he’s left in the past.  Being a grown up does not mean that you can’t enjoy playfulness inside the bedroom.  He knows role playing is a fantasy and obviously recognizes that it’s not reality–but will he enjoy the adventure? Probably so.

What You Don’t Know About Your Underwear

What You Don't Know About Your Underwear

We pull them on each and every day without giving it much thought–but what you might not realize is that there are a lot of crazy things about your underwear that you’re probably completely clueless about.  Here’s a list of random underwear factoids that are sure to shed some light on your unmentionables.

  • The average woman has over 20 pairs of underwear.  We can’t say for sure, but we’re guessing that since 27% of women claim to have frequent underwear issues that put them in a bad mood, some of a woman’s undergarment collection may only be used when the laundry is beginning to back up.
  • Speaking of wearing clean underwear…did you know that in France only 60% of men change their underwear daily?  French women do somewhat better, with 75% of French women reporting to wear a clean pair every day.
  • A shocking 9% of men have pairs of underwear that are over ten years old.
  • 80% of women are wearing the wrong size bra.  A woman’s bra size is purported to change about six times during her lifetime, so being refitted now and then is definitely prudent.  Some of the factors that may cause a bra size to change include pregnancy, childbirth, menopause, weight loss or gain or even a new exercise regimen.
  • 10% of women admit to going commando in order to completely avoid visible panty lines.  The term “commando” is said to have come from the military, where soldiers who endured rough conditions often dressed sans underwear in order to avoid conditions like crotch rot, chafing, jock itch, etc.  In case you have been wondering, it has been rumored that a true Scotsman always goes commando underneath his kilt.
  • The most popular type of woman’s panty is the good ol’ bikini, with over 37% of women claiming it as their favorite type of underwear.  Believe it or not, granny panties come in second with 23% enjoying their use.  Thongs are preferred by 19% of women, boy shorts by 17% and 4% of women prefer something categorized as “other.”
  • Did you know that your underwear says something about your personality?  Women who wear sexy g-strings are said to be more sexually liberated and confident about their bodies.  Women who like plain white cotton underwear have personalities that are simple and low maintenance.
  • The United Kingdom sells the highest number of large bra cup sizes.  Japan sells the highest number of small bra cup sizes.
  • The color of your underwear may offer some insight into your personality or mood.  Black is associated with power, courage and strength.  Blue is associated with creativity and mystery.  Green is associated with relaxation.  Red is associated with being vibrant and rebellious. Yellow is associated with cheerfulness.  White has been not only associated with calmness, but it has also been proven to be the surprising hands-down favorite color of female underwear to most men.
  • Lingerie is big business, bringing in 30 billion dollars annually.  Over 50% of the lingerie marketplace is attributed to bra sales.  30% of all lingerie sales are in briefs, while corsetry and other lingerie implements bring in just over 10% annually.
  • In the 1950’s it was popular for college age young men to break into the girl’s dormitory and steal the young women’s underwear.  The garments would then be hung up and displayed.  This activity became well known as a “panty raid.”
  • Men’s briefs were not introduced until the mid-1930’s, when jockey shorts revolutionized the world of male underwear.  Touting “scientific suspension” and “restful buoyancy” these undergarments have been a popular male choice in underwear ever since.

The Quest For Comfy Undies

Comfy Bra and Panties

You know the drill with your underwear.  Sometimes it pinches.  At times it rides up.  Occasionally it binds and squishes.  Now and then, its been known to even take your breath away!  Let’s face it, sometimes it really seems like getting underwear that stays put and feels great while still doing its job, just might be an impossible dream.  We are light years ahead of our female predecessors, however, as the quest for perfect under things has been one that women have been on for centuries and the journey hasn’t been so easy.

Let’s start with the corset. Several hundred years ago, women were lacing and tying themselves into what could arguably be considered something more akin to a human torture chamber than an actual piece of underwear.  Early corsets were a highly functional undergarment that, back in the day, most women wouldn’t be caught dead without.  Early corsets were very structured garments, fashioned from actual whalebones or even in some cases, steel frames.  These heavily framed and extremely stiff garments were designed to literally mold and contort a woman’s body into a desired shape, which actually once accomplished, sometimes was hardly anything close to what her natural shape might have been. Boobs were pushed up and together while the waist was cinched in to ridiculous tininess.  The result was an extreme, but oddly desired version of the hourglass figure.  Corsets could be hideously tight, highly restrictive and obviously were very uncomfortable.  A corset could be almost dangerous at times as well, squishing bodily organs into unnatural positions making it almost impossible at times to sit down or even to breathe!  It was not uncommon back in those days for a woman to literally swoon or faint because her corset was laced too tightly.  

Women eventually got smart–but it took awhile and the corset was worn for centuries as women tried to achieve that ridiculously exaggerated female shape that could only be provided via pain and quite a bit of suffering.  Although eventually more flexible and thus perhaps healthier corsets were eventually designed, as time wore on, corset use was largely abandoned in favor of garments that most of us might call “granny’s girdle.”  Old school girdles were very popular in the 1920’s and by the 1950’s women were at it once again, contorting their bodies into unnatural shapes and seeking after some very awkward and unnatural silhouettes.  Achieving conical, pointy breasts and tiny little waists required a whole different arsenal of women’s undergarments.  Thank goodness for the sixties when much more rebellious women were either burning their bras or went looking for lingerie that created a far more natural look.

Today’s modern woman still covets the high fashion looks of vintage lingerie–including the corset, which ironically is still considered one of the most seductive and erotic pieces of lingerie a woman can own. Thankfully, however, with modern fabrics such as stretch laces and spandex, it’s pretty easy to get the look of vintage lingerie without involving any of the suffering of yesteryear.  The next time you put on a comfy cotton t-shirt bra, or a skimpy little pair of bikinis, think about how far your underwear has come.  Now that is something you should be able to easily wriggle yourself into–with a smile.

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